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Overthinking &  Anxiety

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Many people experiencing anxiety are thoughtful, capable individuals whose minds simply don’t switch off. They manage a lot, think deeply about things, and often appear to be functioning well on the outside. But internally, their nervous system rarely fully settles.


Does this sound familiar?
If so, you're not alone. It's far more common than many people know. This is one of the most common reasons people in Newcastle and across Australia, contact me. 

Outwardly, you may still seem capable, responsible, and in control.
But on the inside, it can feel very different.

Your mind keeps going.
Your body stays tense.
And even when nothing is wrong, it can feel like something might be.



You might notice:
• constant overthinking or difficulty switching your mind off
• replaying conversations or analysing situations long after they’ve happened
• second-guessing decisions or worrying about getting things wrong
• feeling mentally “on” even when there’s nothing urgent happening
• irritability or emotional reactions closer to the surface
• difficulty relaxing or being fully present


Stress and anxiety can also show up physically in the body, for example:
• tension headaches or tight shoulders
• difficulty sleeping or waking with a busy mind
• digestive issues or IBS-type symptoms
• a racing heart or sense of internal restlessness
• fatigue from your system always being “on”


For many people, this isn’t simply a workload or time-management issue.
When these internal pressure patterns are active, the nervous system stays in a state of alertness and vigilance. Even when you consciously know things are okay, your system continues operating as if it needs to stay on guard.

In this state:
• rest doesn’t fully restore you
• your mind struggles to switch off
• logic doesn’t settle the worry
• internal pressure continues building beneath a composed exterior


How This Work Helps

Anxiety and overthinking are rarely just “thinking problems.”
They are patterns held within both the mind and the nervous system.
When those patterns stay active, the system remains in a cycle of vigilance, pressure, and mental overactivity — even when you consciously know things are okay.
The work I do focuses on resolving these underlying patterns so the system can settle and new responses can naturally take their place.

As that internal pressure begins to ease, people often notice:
• their mind becoming quieter
• feeling calmer and more emotionally steady
• being able to think clearly without constant second-guessing
• situations that once triggered anxiety often becoming a 'non-issue'

Many people describe feeling lighter, happier, and more like themselves again.


Working Together
If this page resonates with you, you're very welcome to reach out.
I work with clients locally in Newcastle and with people worldwide.
Together we focus on resolving the deeper patterns driving anxiety and internal pressure, so you can move through life with greater calm, clarity, and confidence.


Amy had suffered with anxiety since her childhood. When she came to see Rebekah she was feeling very negative, had bad depression and was struggling with how she felt on a day to day basis. After just a few sessions, Amy now feels light, confident and so much happier! She no longer wakes up tired and is able to trust her decisions, and really trust herself. Amy's life has completely changed and this has also benefited her family. She's seen a shift in her mood, she's able to be fully present, enjoys stronger relationships and is now teaching her children about more positive mindsets. If you're struggling with anxiety or depression and you'd like to learn more, book a consultation with me. Then we can discuss your issues and a plan to move forward.
At the height of Covid, Janette felt stressed, overwhelmed and depressed dealing with all the pressure associated with her demanding career. After working together she's feeling great, sleeping well (no 4:00am wake ups!), more productive, has dropped a dress size and is now off her blood pressure medication. 
​A busy professional, Garth was feeling overwhelmed after experiencing lots of simultaneous change. Garth now feels at ease, confident and back to form.


"The Mind is everything; what you think you become." Socrates 
​If you recognise yourself in these patterns, the work we do together focuses on resolving what is driving them beneath conscious effort.
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If you're curious about whether this work might help, you’re welcome to get in touch. We can briefly discuss what’s happening for you and whether working together feels like the right next step. 

Click on the button below to book a free 20 minute consultation straight into my calendar. 

Book a free consultation
​This is a relaxed 20 minute conversation to see if this work feels right for you. 
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​Clinical hypnotherapist, RTT therapist and relationship coach based in Newcastle, NSW helping people worldwide with relationship patterns, anxiety, trauma, overthinking, emotional triggers and behaviours that affect confidence, habits, health and performance. My work focuses on resolving the subconscious patterns and stress responses that continue to drive behaviour even when people understand their patterns intellectually.
Contact via email:​ [email protected]

Most people choose to work with me online from the comfort of their home. 
I also have an office for the convenience of local clients:
Unit 5, 26-32 Lake St, Warners Bay. 
(Above Thai Square and inside Living Mind) 

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